Whew. Deep breath. This is one of those announcements I’ve gone back and forth about because I truly didn’t want to make this decision—but it’s time.
Effective immediately and for an indefinite amount of time, I will no longer be accepting new clients or custom design projects (including NiteFlirt listings, websites, etc).
I’ve been overwhelmed for months now, taking on way too many custom projects and stretching myself far beyond what’s mentally healthy. And while I’m incredibly grateful for the trust, love, and support—you’ve all kept me booked and busy—it’s become too much.
Digital Snack Bar was built to be a playful, creative space—a digital shop serving up premade NiteFlirt templates and other fun, ready-to-use products. The goal was always to create a self-serve vibe: high-quality digital goodies you could grab and use with ease, without waiting on a custom order. But somewhere along the line, custom work began to dominate my schedule, and the shop I poured my heart into started to reflect that.
Constant deadlines. Endless revisions. Managing multiple projects at a time and honestly it started to take the joy out of something I’ve always loved doing. I have been exhausted.
So I’m stepping back. Not because I don’t love the work—but because I need to protect my peace, reclaim my schedule, and pour back into what I originally envisioned for Digital Snack Bar. Expect the shop to be updated more often with fresh templates, gorgeous downloads, and expanded offerings across categories.
Now, for the exceptions to this pause on custom work as I will still take on a very limited number of custom projects if you fall into one of these categories:
- You’re a past client I’ve already worked with
- You’re a member of Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy
- You’re one of my exclusive ride-or-dies—the clients who always come to me for everything (Y’all basically feel like family at this point.)
If that’s you, feel free to reach out. I can’t promise availability at immediate times, but if I’ve got the space and capacity, I absolutely got you. Just know my availability will still be limited, because I need to prioritize ease and balance above all else right now.
I wish I could say yes to everyone, but I’ve got to protect my sanity, personal life and build a business that’s not running me into the ground. If and when I reopen to new clients or expand my custom offerings again, I’ll be shouting it from the rooftops—so stay tuned!
Thank you for being here. Thank you for understanding. And thank you for rocking with me through every twist and turn of this journey.
A Little Update About Freebies
I also wanted to take a moment to talk about freebies—because I know so many of you look forward to them (and I love making them for you!).
While I’ll absolutely still be offering freebies from time to time, I can no longer commit to a monthly freebie schedule. Life has been busy, and trying to squeeze out a new freebie every month on top of everything else? Whew—it’s a lot!
BUT, please believe me when I say: I’m not stopping the freebies! They’re still coming. I’m just switching up the frequency so I can create from a place of joy and inspiration—not pressure or burnout.
Whenever a new freebie drops, you’ll be the first to know! I’ll always send out a newsletter or announcement with the download link and any extra goodies tied to it. And of course, you’ll still get regular updates about the shop, exclusive sales, discounts, and surprise treats.
So instead of expecting freebies on a monthly schedule, think of them as unexpected gifts—popping up like little sparkles of joy when you least expect them.
That way, there’s no disappointment—just happy surprises.
Thanks for understanding, and thanks for always showing love. Y’all keep me inspired. 🫶🏾
